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I was twenty. I will let no one say it is the best time of life. Everything threatens a young person with ruin: love, ideas, the loss of family, the entrance into the world of adults. It is hard to learn one’s part in the world.

- Paul Nizan, Aden Arabie (via areyouhappyenough)

(Source: warzonetourism)

, #quote #reblogging because it's my 21st birthday in like a month #and i want to be ok with being older than 20 #it's a hard age #but it's also still so young #i don't want to leave this state of equilibrium between youth and adulthood #paul nizan #lit

You will walk differently alone, dear, through a thicker atmosphere, forcing your way through the shadows of chairs, through the dripping smoke of the funnels. You will feel your own reflection sliding along the eyes of those who look at you. You are no longer insulated; but I suppose you must touch life in order to spring from it.

- F. Scott Fitzgerald, Tender is the Night
(via vermeers)

(Source: seabois)

, #F. Scott Fitzgerald #tender is the night #quote #lit

Don’t feed the trolls: it’s probably the most common refrain in online discussions, especially when dealing with misogynists in feminists conversations. The idea is that the best way to deal with sexists is to starve of them of the attention they’re so clearly desperate for. Besides, we think, why sink to their level?

But the high road is overrated. It requires silence in the face of violent misogyny, and a turn-the-other cheek mentality that society has long demanded of women. A vibrant feminist movement has ensured women don’t take injustices laying down offline - so why would we acquiesce on the Internet?

…The truth is - despite stereotypes that paint feminists as forever negative - doing feminist work requires boundless optimism. It means believing that people have the ability to be better, that culture can change, and maybe even that people who hate can learn to love. It’s exhausting. Sometimes reminding ourselves how hilariously stupid the opposition can be is a necessary break from the burden of idealism.

- Fuck the High Road: The Upside of Sinking to Their Level, Jessica Valenti’s latest at The Nation (via pleonasticfantastic)
, #jessica valenti #the nation #quote #feminsim

I don’t understand why we must do things in this world, why we must have friends and aspirations, hopes and dreams. Wouldn’t it be better to retreat to a faraway corner of the world, where all its noise and complications would be heard no more? Then we could renounce culture and ambitions; we would lose everything and gain nothing; for what is there to be gained from this world?

- Emil Cioran (via armsoreal)
, #on the heights of despair #emil cioran #quote #lit #i have really been feeling this lately